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Fly High. Fly High.

    My normal has become a different normal. Completely surreal, and I am trying to get my head around the events that happened in our circle on the 7 th March this year. We lost 2 friends in our group over that long weekend in a tragic motorbike accident. Grief is nothing like I have experienced before of this magnitude and the complete shock of what has happened I am still struggling to come to grips with. You go on about your days and weeks doing the mundane bullshit, weeks turn to months and then another year goes by. Another Christmas. Another birthday. And we complain about crap all the time.  Perspective is something that tragic events provide you so quickly. It makes you look at your own life, and magnifies the importance of the really important stuff, the stuff that should matter and it also highlights what is completely irrelevant. Completely irrelevant . Family, health, relationships, memories – for me, this is what is important. Happiness and love. Above all … Love


 I am broken. I am devastated. I am numb.  We lost two souls in our circle over the long weekend. And I am struggling to understand, accept and quite frankly even do the simplest stuff in day to day. Forgive me if I am a little quiet on the blogsphere. Until then...oxo